2019-The Year of the Earth Boar-Chinese New Year Do’s & Don’ts
The Chinese New Year is the beginnings of celebrations to welcome the awakening of both the new year and the emerging Springtime with its blessing of abundance and prosperity. Chinese New Year is celebrated in most Asian countries but also in countries with big Chinese communities; Europe, Australia, New Zeeland, America, and Canada.
While this is a time of great celebration it is also a time of ceremony with strict rules and regulations. Unlike our yearly 365 days, Gregorian calendar the Chinese follow a Lunar calendar around January 21-February 20, New Moon. This year’s New Year is on February 5th until the full moon on the 20th.
Listed here are a few common do’s and don’ts that should be observed during the New Years celebration.
- Arguing or Negativity (includes scolding of children)
Words that are perceived as angry or negative are forbidden during this time. This is to prevent jinxing yourself or bringing misfortunes to yourself or your loved ones.
Words meaning death, sickness, emptiness, pain, ghosts, being poor, breaking (emotional or physical), killing, etc.. are forbidden. Kindness and forgiveness are key.
- Sharp Objects
Do not use knives, scissors, needles, or sharp objects. These are seen as objects associated with anger, danger and the cutting off success and good fortune.
All cleaning and decluttering should be done before the New Year’s new moon. During the 1st day of New Year do not sweep your floors or throw out your trash as this discards your wealth and good fortune from the home. If you must sweep start at outer perimeter and work to center. Bag garbage and discard on the 5th day of New year.
- Breaking Objects
Breaking glass, porcelain, or any fragile objects can lead to breaks in your prosperity and good fortune. If you do break something store it in a container or wrap in red cloth and discard after New Year celebrations have concluded.
Pay all debts prior to the New Year. Asking for or borrowing money during a time of celebration can lead to misfortune for both parties. It can lead to owing you or your being in debt all year.
- Visiting Family
Most Asian families have multiple generations living together. If not then a wife generally will visit the husband’s family. Visiting the wife’s family could lead to marital problems and bad luck for the entire family.
Crying on New Years means you will cry all year long.
Avoid unnecessary medicine, going to the doctor, shots, and surgery to avoid being sick during the year.
This is not meant for sudden serious or chronic illnesses. In these instances seek immediate care.
- Hair Care
Do not wash your hair. It means washing away good luck for the Year.
- Bedroom Greetings
New Year’s greetings to someone who is still in their bedroom. Doing so means that person will be sickly or bedridden all year.
- Removing articles from Purse or Pocket
Do not allow others to remove things from your pocket or purse as this can lead to you losing money during the year.
Gifts are common to bring when visiting family and friends. Small red envelopes with some money are considered good luck which is carried in the wallet all year to attract wealth and good fortune. Avoid clocks and some forms of fruits all which signify loss or death.
No black or white clothing should be worn during the New Year. Both are considered bad luck. Bright colors, esp. red, is seen as auspicious and prosperous.
- Food- Food is very important during the celebration. Many kinds of food are served that have vivid rich colors in red, orange, green and gold all of these are considered symbols of luck:
Fish- having enough to share with others and serving a whole fish symbolizes abundance
Chicken for gaining prosperity and is served whole. It must have the head, tail, and feet still attached, this symbolizes wholeness perfection
Garlic-what is eternal and lasts
Fish balls and meatballs-prosperous reunions
Oranges and pomegranates:
Orange represents luck.
Pomegranate is treasured for its many seeds and symbolizes fertility. Its red color that has the power to keep away evil spirits.
Noodles must be uncut, they symbolize long life.
The huge quantities of food served during this period are meant to symbolize the abundance and wealth of the household.
- References to death, dying, ghosts, or the past
Do not refer to death, dying, or ghosts to avoid bad luck and evil spirits from entering the home. Dwelling on the past prevents the blessings and good fortune of the New Year from blessing the home and family
- Open all Doors and Windows
Just as we celebrate the New Year at midnight on December 31st, so it is on the Chinese New Year. At the stroke of midnight open all your doors and windows to allow the old out and welcome the new into your home.
May you be blessed with a Year of Abundance, Success, and Prosperity.